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Thursday, September 8, 2011

The problem as opportunities

When a problem comes, do i panic or do I see it as a challenge? Something the whole words seems like a problem; sometimes I need to create problem ; A problem is only a problem when I call it a problem. A situation is only as difficult as I want it to be.

Difficulties and disappointments are the events which lead me to maturity. After all, wisdom does not necessarily come with age; it is the gift of experience.

I have the tendency to imagine that my problem are greater and more important than anyone else's. It is in fact a subtle form of of ego; the feeling that "my problem is worse than your problem, so you must give me regard".

More often I am so confused and clouded that i cannot see a clear way out of a given problem, with the result that fear and tension build up, and I become irritable and filed with self-pity. In that frame of mind the smallest obstacle becomes huge.

I keep running away from situation that i fined disagreeable; and the further I run away from a problem, the more difficult it is to resolve.

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